As a primary caregiver, it is natural to want to raise a child who is focused on others and who has a sense of responsibility to society. Children, though, do not always naturally possess these traits, especially when living in a culture that caters to an "it's all about me" ideology. Showing children how to be selfless versus simply telling them how to be selfless may be the key to unlocking the compassion within their hearts. As a nanny, you have the power to show children how to give of themselves through volunteering activities.
The Benefits of Volunteering
Volunteering can carry significant social benefits for children, says Dr. Mark McKee, psychologist and author of Raising a Successful Child: The Manual.
According to McKee, volunteering provides children with the opportunity to discover the world that extends beyond their small and protected environment. "It's also an opportunity to give to others with no promise or expectation of return or reward and intrinsic rewards gained through the experience will be cherished for life," he says.
Lending a hand to someone in need can heighten your child's sense of self-esteem and self-worth while also providing an opportunity to possibly discover new career options on which to build aspirations, says McKee. "It's an opportunity to truly appreciate their own advantages in this life and an opportunity to feel genuinely useful and appreciated, which are things many children never experience living in homes with abundant and at times, unlimited resources," he says.
Jumping Right In
Although a sulky five-year old or bothered 13-year old may not immediately see the benefits of volunteering, it's still important to show them through hands-on activities, all while turning a selfless act into a fun adventure.
Designate a specific day each week for volunteer activities and jump right in with one of the following acts of kindness:
Collect children's books from family and friends and donate them to a local hospital or librarySign up for a charity walk to benefit an organization or disease awarenessDonate food to a food pantry by having your child pick out an item each time you shop for groceriesVolunteer to serve meals to the homeless at a local shelter or food pantryCompile activity boxes, complete with puzzles, coloring books and games, to donate to a children's center or children's hospitalDonate a few hours to picking up litter at local parks or roadwaysVisit a nursing home and offer to share your talents through musical entertainment or story timeDeliver meals to the homebound (many food pantries offer these services)Take the kids along as you volunteer to drive an elderly neighbor to the doctor or grocery storeVolunteer to feed, walk and care for abandoned animals at the local animal shelterGather several classmates and friends to raise awareness and money to help refugee kids in schools around the worldRecruit the entire family to tutor, mentor or read with younger childrenWork with the local Red Cross agency to give blood or organize a community blood driveMake cards, blankets and stuffed animals for sick children and donate to a local organization who provides care items to hospitals and children's center